عيد الأم حاله يغم

THIS POST IS TOO PERSONAL AND I WISH NO ONE READ IT, I JUST NEED TO SCREAM OUT WITH SOME WORDS

thank you god for all your blessings

"عيد الأم حاله يغم"
i always say this and all my friends understand and smile
but this year: so much presure
@ work
my sister mother in law
and others
every mother's day, we manage to spend it in positive activities
and i have to admit that our true friends help us a lot in this day (and in couple others :) lol)
i hate when all the media is turned to school chorus "ya 7enyna we kolek teyba ..... ",
i remember "elset di Omy" show: it was a show full of sadism feelings; the star is telling stories about his mother and start to cry and so on
Sick !!!
last night, among my friends we laughed about the occassion and our friends (true blessings i thank god for) helped us turning the subject to a funny story

Sometime when someone loses a dear one he/she refuses to talk about it with others, that's simply because the stupid approach of others towards him/her
i learned this fact when some friend's father died and her youngest sister refused even to eat, and i was the only one who could grap her out of that dark cave she was in
what i did was simply not to preach but chat the normal orinary day to day conversation, and then say the right supportive words
people tend to preach
THIS IS WRONG
today i had a conversation with one of my super high intelligent friend, i remembered the little girl i knew while talking with this friend
why people think that when someone loses a dear one he/she become mentaly retarted and need to be preached about life facts again and again